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Ask Girly Juice: Small Dildos

girlyjuice:

Anonymous asked: I’m really really tight down there. Do you have any recommendations for a small dildo I could start with, to work up to bigger ones?

Yeah, girl!

I think you’ll find that Tantus, in particular, has a lot of smaller options. As a tiny-vagina’ed girl myself, that’s one of the reasons I love Tantus so much!

I was recently sent a Tantus Charmer (on sale for only $22 at PinkCherry right now, quelle steal!) and it is pretty damn small at 1 1/4”, but feels amazing. The little ridges are very stimulating. As a bonus, I’m sure it would work well as an anal toy too (as would most small dildos, really).

I think Tantus’ smallest dildo is the small Silk, which is only 3/4” wide. Baby dildo! You could also try the Acute (1 1/4”), Eaze (1”), or Compact (1”). And if you’re feeling adventurous and want some mega-texture in a tiny package, the Splish (1”) ought to fit the bill.

As for non-Tantus dildos, Doc Johnson has the Slender and Slim, and Don Wands makes some skinny glass dildos like the Bubble Thriller and Nubby Buddy. And of course, there’s always the gorgeous Njoy Fun Wand.

Oh, and make sure your initial penetration attempts are as pain-free as possible by getting your hands on a good lube! Best of luck to you, little one. ♥

every girl’s different, so bottom line, you need to keep asking her what she likes, but in my general experience:

sex is psychological, get her in the mood, talk dirty, keep telling her how sexy she is and how much you want her, in detail and in many different expressions, kissing her neck, back, breasts, etc, for a good 15-20 minutes before you even go near her pussy;

start kissing, licking, on her inner thighs, then her lips, but not her clit. unlike men, women take longer for arousal to transmit from their brains to their bodies. don’t ever touch a dry clit—it hurts. As you lick her lips, flood her pussy with your saliva. You will keep flooding her pussy with your saliva until she comes, so that she is completely wet the whole time. in fact, your mouth will often be cupped over her pussy, with a pool of saliva within. Don’t point and flick your tongue like a maniacal guitar pick. rather, use a relaxed, flat, wide tongue, like when licking an ice cream cone. let your tongue swim through the canal of her pussy, from the bottom, through the lips, toward the clit. repeat, over and over again. Your hands should be flicking and pinching her nipples. if she’s into kinky, slap those tits. You should keep talking to her. If she is clean, start your lick on her anus, up through her lips, toward her clit. (everything i say about the anus is optional, but i recommend it for orgasms like she’s never had). By now, if not sooner, you will be able to sense that she is juicing and getting hot, because you will be able to taste her fluids. This means you can start extending your licks up to her clit. start with a wet, sloppy lick on her ass, through the lips, and end with a gentle suck on her clit. keep repeating over and over; 

take an excursion and lick only her ass for a while, telling her how sexy she is, with your full vocab arsenal. You can either turn her over on all fours, or lift her hips up, her legs over herself, for good access;

back to the ass to pussy-to clit licking reps. lick your two middle fingers (the ones between index and baby) so they are dripping wet. gently insert them in her, with the fingers slightly curled up. the g-spot is where your fingertips naturally rest when your fingers are all the way in and curled up. finger fuck her while you continue your mouth action. in-out motion is good, but keep your fingers curled, so as to gently scratch the roof of her pussy with the soft palm of your fingers. start with a pace of about one rep per second. but while the clit responds to (gentle) friction, the g-spot area responds to firm pressure, so keep a good pressure on with those fingers. She should be soaking wet by now if you’re doing things right;

As you continue with your mouth and hand, lick the thumb of your other hand, make sure it’s dripping wet, and insert only the tip into her ass. Just keep it there. The secondary stimuli transmitted from all the other motions should be enough to pleasure her anus, without moving your thumb, so you can focus on your other hand, and most importantly, your mouth;

Most girls seem to need time and a steady licking action to get in the groove, so it’s not good to try lots of erratic licking styles, but some girls like it when you do a variety of things, so you simply have to keep asking her what she likes. examples of varieties are, the stitch, where you do a zig-zag up and down the lips, or the alphabet, where you write the letters of the alphabet with your tongue, or what works best for me, to occasionally take some time out and concentratedly machine-gun flick the clit (do this last one with a relaxed tongue, and do it while slurping a ton of saliva, much like how a wine-taster inhales while oscillating the tongue. But your basic default is the ass through lips lick ending with a gentle suck on the clit, then repeat;

keep talking to her. sex is psychological. tell her to take her time, and to not feel she needs to cum, and to just enjoy what you do, how much you love what you’re doing, how amazing she tastes, and to tell you if there’s something she’d like for you to do. lots of girls can’t get in the groove because they feel pressure to cum fast. and you should not feel pressure to make her cum either. take your time, and enjoy what you’re doing. enjoy her flavor. enjoy her responses. it varies greatly, but generally in 5-30 minutes, she will start to climax. she will start to writhe and contort. she may or may not be vocal, but i would encourage her to be vocal, because that will enhance her sense of release. tell her to moan for you. tell her it turns you on. If she is climaxing, stop talking, forget her lips and just lick and suck her clit like there’s no tomorrow, flooding it with saliva. keep fingering her, now at a fast but maintainable pace. don’t let up. be patient, don’t stop. just keep at it till you push her over the edge. As she comes, she will contort violently. If it’s a strong orgasm, she will have involuntary spasms and shakes. Don’t let up. As her orgasm goes over the top, she will be trying to push your head away because she is too sensitive now. Don’t let up right away, keep at it for a while, even if it is uncomfortable for her. As she tries seriously to push you away, stop the licking and sucking, but keep your mouth cupped over her pussy. don’t move your fingers, but keep them in her pussy. free your other hand gently, and use it to gently caress her stomach, top to bottom, top to bottom, and sooth her until she completely comes down. Let her see you down on her, let her see how much you enjoyed it. when you take your fingers out, let her see you licking them dry; 

Hold her, kiss her. If you guys are up for it, fuck her. It’s a good time to do it from behind, because her clit is still too raw. 

btw i often fuck her face and cum in her mouth halfway into cunnilingus. she’s hot and totally hungry for it then. by the time i’ve made her cum, i’m hard again and ready to fuck her. i’m sure there are endless variations, and everybody is different, but this is my 2 cents’ worth, and it never fails me. good luck, bro. i think it’s awesomely manly that you want to get better, as do i. sex is not an extreme sport. anyone can be amazing at it if they’re just willing to learn. don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t work right away. you’ll be a sex god sooner than you think.

hislittlewh0re asked: You're completely right, there's nothing worse than a flicky tongue. I was never able to orgasm until I met my boyfriend. He spends at least 10 mins just kissing or licking, around my pussy or just breathing onto my clit, then he just touches the opening with the very tip of his tongue and goes up towards my clit, never touches it. It drives me crazy, when I can't take it any more he plunges his tongue down properly. I orgasm within minutes and it's so intense. I hope this helps the anon! :)

Anonymous asked: My girlfriend tells me that of any guy who has ever gone down on her, I am the best because I can actually make her come. The puddles under her are absolutely amazing too! Fuck yeah, cunnilingus.

Congrats! Sounds like you’re doing it right, my friend!

Anonymous asked: I'm a male (20s). I would like to be able to do cunnilingus better, but I can't flick my tongue for very long. I can flick it from side to side ok, but it soon tires out even then, and I can't flick up and down at all. My question is, 1. do I need to be able to flick my tongue rapidly? 2. is there some technique to doing this? 3. Or is there some practice I can do. Thanks

It’s been my experience that most women aren’t into the kind of tongue-flicking you see in porn. That technique is used for visual impact, because it’s porn. Most real-life cunnilingus techniques can’t actually be seen because the lips are surrounding the clit or the tongue is doing something slower, softer, and less visual.

If you feel inadequate with your tongue, use your lips more. Get them wet and basically give her clit a blowjob. You can mix your tongue in there too, of course.

Practice moving your tongue in circles, or moving it up and down or side to side in slower, gentler, non-flick-like movements. Flicking can actually hurt many women because the clit is soooo sensitive. Focus more on sliding your tongue along and around her clit sensually, rather than attacking it.

ayo1313 asked: very nice ... I'm really getting wet thinking how those pussies smels/.