Anonymous said: My favorite part about sex is going down on a girl. I never saw this as a problem. I mean, if my jaw allowed it, I'd spend weeks down there. However, I recently ran into a problem that I was oblivious to until a recent sex partner brought it up. She said I am too willing and it makes me unattractive. I never saw it that way. Have you had or heard of similar experiences? If so, do you have any advice on how to deal with my situation?
Never heard of that. There are definitely women who don’t LIKE receiving oral, but of the women I know who DO like receiving oral, a partner being “overly willing” to give oral would never, ever be a problem. In fact, it would be a huge plus.
There are lots of other women out there with whom you’d be extremely sexually compatible. If this woman’s attitude about oral is making you feel bad, you don’t have to stay with her. Sexual compatibility matters.